Is There Something Wrong With Me?
Published: November 20, 2019 · Last reviewed on this site: 2026-10-30
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The question
Dear TeenHealthFX,
Whenever i masturbate i only do it for a few seconds, over the underwear and i never finish, iâm worried there is something wrong with my health? is there something wrong with me? (iâm an 18 year old girl)
Signed: TeenHealthFX
The answer
TeenHealthFX wants to assure you that there is nothing wrong with you. [WebMD explains, "Masturbation is the self-stimulation of the genitals to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm (sexual climax). It is commonly done by touching, stroking, or massaging the penis or clitoris until an orgasm is achieved." Masturbation is a healthy sexual activity that many people enjoy. You mention that your concern is that you are not "finishing" or in other words having an orgasm, perhaps you should try a different method such as longer than a few seconds or directly touching your skin. Engaging in masturbation has physical, mental, and emotional health benefits such as stress relief, improved sleep, and better body image.
If you have questions or concerns about your health, your doctor is the best person to address your concerns. If you need help finding a doctor and live in northern New Jersey, you can call the [Adolescent/Young Adult Center for Health at 973-971-5199 for an appointment with an adolescent medicine specialist.