Who Is the Father? Please Help!
Published: August 21, 2021 · Last reviewed on this site: 2026-10-30
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The question
Dear TeenHealthFX,
I had sex with guy number 1 on New Year’s Eve. I had sex with guy number 2 a day before my period with a condom, had my period the 9th - 15th and after my period I had unprotected sex with guy number 3, came in me and got pregnant. My due date is October 22. Could it be possible the first or second guy is the father even though we used a condom? Please help very nervous
Signed: TeenHealthFX
The answer
Unfortunately, TeenHealthFX cannot diagnose or treat over the internet. Based on the information you provided, it is very unlikely that guy number one or guy number two are the father. Since you mention having a period and knowing your due date, you and your doctor are able to determine when conception occurred based on your last period. We strongly recommend discussing this with your doctor to make sure that the dates are accurate and will give you a better idea of timing and who the father would be based on the dates you had sex.
If you need help finding a doctor and live in northern New Jersey, you can call the [Adolescent/Young Adult Center for Health at 973-971-5199 for an appointment with an adolescent medicine specialist.